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there is always light at the end of the tunnel stay positive and think of tommorow not yesterdy
What a sad lot people are on this site. I have only read the first page and have never met such a sad lot of people. My advice to you all is find something useful to do with your lives instead of moaning on here. Remember we only have one life so ENJOY IT.
me and my husband split up just after christmas we have two chirdren which found it realy hard and so did i. a couple of week later he found someone else wich was realy hard to take in as well but i did but the last couple of week me and my ex have been getting along realy well and i am ashamed to say have been sleeping with each other i no this is bad but he is my husband at the end of the day the thing is he dosent want to leave this new peson but still wants me wot sould i do ?
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I really feel for you you said at the end you feel suicidal, it is hard but you have to be strong for your two little ones they need you more than you can ever know. I was with someone who sounds very much like your husband, he used to speak to me like i was a bit of crap on his shoe we never went out he was miserable all the time, he used to play on his computer all day and night we had a bad relationship, and towards the end i was only with him because i felt sorry for him because he wouldnt have anywhere to live if we split up, but enough was enough it got to the stage where i actually started hating him then i dumped him, we didnt have any kids so it was easy, when i had finished it i felt so relieved like i could breath again im a really happy person but when i was with him i changed too i was stressed and down all the time i wanted to get myself back so i did. finishing with him was the best thing i could have done the only regret i have in my life was staying with him for 4 years i wasted 4 of the best years of my life, when i should of been having fun, im not saying you should finish with your husband but dont let this situation carry on its not healthy for you or your children, you need to decide if you still love him if not dont stay with him for the childrens sake it wont help them growing up in a house where their is argueing all the time, if you do still love him you have to try to talk to him and tell him how your feeling i know you have tried that, maybe if he wont listen you should write it down, maybe you should have a short break together if you can get a babysitter get away just the two of you for a long weekend (where there are no computer games and if poss no t.v.) and try to just have fun and remember why you married each other. What ever happens never give up hope, at one time i thought i would never be happy but now im married with a little girl, we have had a few hard times due to money, but we have got through it and stuck together we are very happy, so my point is sometimes it can feel like their is no hope and tings will never get any better but believe me it will get better you never know whats around the next corner, even if you ended up seperating you may meet the love of your life and sole mate the next day. I believe everything happens for a reason it may not be easy and you may not understand why ay the time but you have to carry on, you only get one life please dont spend it unhappy only you have the power to make the right choises good luck and never give up life has a way of working out fine xxxxxxxxxxx
do you know that you are destroying a marriage you should stop and think how it would feel to be the wife
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